It’s 3:30 PM and what little sunlight managed to push through the seemingly ever present rain clouds today is now dissipating. Soon it will be as dark as it would be around 7:30 PM back home in Florida. I admit that I knew even before moving to Norway that the lack of sunlight had an immense effect on my mental health. Working a sunrise-to-sunset job back then gave me an inkling as to how both autumn and winter greatly influenced my motivation, mood, and general sense of worth. Seasonal affective disorder (SAD) is categorized as depression associated with seasonal changes. The symptoms and severity can vary from person to person, but the condition is usually accompanied by lack of interest in hobbies, feelings of sadness and hopelessness, appetite changes, and problems with sleep. It wasn’t until I moved to this beautiful Scandinavian country that I would come to realize all these symptoms, among others, would hit me full force. Thankfully, this is my second year experiencing the tough Norwegian winter and I have come up with a few ways to cope with SAD.
Please remember that these are just ways I personally try to cope with symptoms of SAD. This is not meant to be used in place of speaking to a medical professional or seeking mental health aid.
1) Take advantage of whatever bit of sunlight you can get!
Alright, this one might seem like common sense but you would be surprised to know that SAD saps away your motivation to do much of anything, even when there is a bit of light outside. If I manage to get out of bed that morning (if you don’t, that is OK! Tomorrow is another day!) and the forecast is looking promising, I take advantage to get outside and soak up as much sun as possible. Go for a spontaneous hike or simply go for a walk around your neighborhood. If you’re at work, skip eating lunch in that dark break room and opt for a meal out on your workplace patio or outdoor seating at a restaurant. If the weather is too chilly, spending a little break in your car will let you stay indoors but you can catch all those rays coming in through your windows.
2) Get excited for winter holidays.
No matter what you celebrate during the holiday season, get excited for it! Go all out and cover your house in seasonal decor. Adorn your space with fall leaves, pumpkins, and spiced candles. Plan a delicious dish you want to make for your traditional holiday dinners and perfect it! Maybe you really like those cute pine cones covered in fake snow you saw at the craft store and want to bring a winter wonderland feeling into your home. If you celebrate religious holidays, look forward to sharing those spiritually fulfilling experiences with friends or family. I used to be that grump that ranted about how much I HATED (oh yea, H-A-T-E-D) Christmas music or decoration going up too early. Although I do still think anytime before Halloween is way too early, I have gained a newfound appreciation for that holly jolly spirit everyone around here seems so incredibly obsessed with. Personally, it gives me a reason to deck my house in cute sparkling Christmas decor and reminds me that the sooner Christmas is here the sooner winter will be over.
3) Plan a lolita meetup.
I know its hard to let the summery floral print JSKs migrate to the back of your closet, but dust off those velvet pieces you keep saying you’ll wear when the weather gets cooler. Plan a lolita meetup with your comm to air out your winter wardrobe. The meet up can be seasonally themed or just any meet will do. The key is to get excited about something especially if you feel comfort in spending time your community or group of lolita friends. If you do not live near an active lolita community (as I do at the moment), you can plan a themed coordinate around autumn or winter and wear it out to a special event. Last year, I had a blast wandering around the local Christmas market in full lolita. Just make sure to keep warm and wear proper shoes if it’s snowing! You don’t want to fall and possibly ruin your precious dress (yes, this comes from experience!).
4) Retail therapy.
Yikes! This is a tricky one because it can get out of hand for some people, including me. In moderation, retail therapy can provide some motivation and excitement even when all you want to do is lay around all day bingeing on potato chips and old episodes of Drag Race. Buy yourself that adorable sweater dress you’ve been eyeing online or splurge on that eye shadow palette you’ve been dying to try out. Getting excited for winter garb doesn’t necessarily have to be limited to your lolita wardrobe. I personally find it much easier to muster motivation to go out if I want to wear a new and warm outfit that I had been saving up for. As I stated previously: everything in moderation. It can become a whole new problem if you overspend or have an addiction to shopping. Budget yourself, but also remember to treat yourself once in a while.
5) Plan a trip to sunnier places.
I get that this tip might be a bit hard to accomplish for those that work or do not have the means to travel. If you are able to, plan a nice trip to a warmer climate. Like a bird migrating south for the winter, I have been lucky enough to be able to travel to much sunnier places during this season. It gives me something to look forward to and helps me push through another dark and cold day. If you are unable to travel, plan a stay-cation or a relaxing spa day! Again, the key is to have something to look forward to so the days don’t feel endless.
What are some tips you have for coping with SAD or simply overcoming the winter blues? If you experience SAD during the spring and summer months, how do you cope with the feelings of depression? Leave a comment below and let me know!